How to speak confidently in PUBLIC

 Do you think that public speaking is an  ART ?

    

       

Ofcourse PUBLIC SPEAKING is an ART,which can be developed by ourselves. 

I loved to speak in public. But can't talk a single word. Because of    FEAR......

Lots of times I dreamt about speaking in public and getting loud claps.But it was a horrible thing for me actually. Just thinking about that itself made me a feeling of fainting....

But now thinking about that nervousness made me laugh....

WHY SHOULD WE FEAR ?

WHAT MAKES US TO FEAR?

WHO WILL GOING TO TEASE US?

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LOT MORE QUESTIONS ARE THERE....

When we get a chance to speak publicly, many questions arise in our mind....

Thinking about the answers for those questions made us  mad and  ending in a decision of NOT TO SPEAK IN PUBLIC.

Whenever we get a chance for public speaking, first of all THANK GOD for giving us that opportunity. Because lots of people are waiting for their turn.

I know speaking like this and giving advice is very simple. But practical is very difficult. 

Leave that kind of thoughts from mind. 

Do you know one secret?

Most of the people ,listening to our speech are not aware about the  topic.

Then why should we fearing to deliver the speech. 

But it is not as simple to deliver a fantastic public speech.

By using some techniques, we can achieve it.

I will share some points that helps me to build confidence in speaking. 

1.SELECT  A TOPIC

First of all we should select a topic for speech. Then gather informations regarding that topic.That is research on that topic.Arrange the topic as points ,to remember  easily.

2.PRACTICE 

Read the informations as many times as possible. Remember the points. Arrange the ideas as pictures in our mind.

That is , we can create those points as a video in our mind.

3.DO TRIALS IN FRONT OF MIRRORS. 

You can practice that speech in front of the mirror. Also in front of our friends or family. 

4.BODY LANGUAGE 

It is a main thing. Body language exhibits our mind itself. So training in front of mirror helps us to clarify the mistakes in our body languages. 

5.CONFIDENCE 

After gaining knowledge about a topic,we get the confidence automatically. Because if we are capable of answering any questions, then why should we get nervous. 

6.ENGAGE THE AUDIENCE 

We can ask feedbacks or questions from audience. Answer their queries.Then they will be happy. Respond and respect the audience. Create interests in them.

7.FEEL LIKE THE AUDIENCE ARE UNAWARE ABOUT THE TOPIC 

Sometimes it will be true. The audience don't know about the topic.Eventhough they are aware,prepare our mind to think that the audience are completely blind about the topic. 

Actually it works in my case.Always I feel like audience don't know anything. Then I will explain from beginning. (When I was in my college).

8.HEAR THE CLAPS

Dream about the claps and appreciations in the end of the speech. Don't feel negative about our speech.Always be in a positive vibe.

Mistakes are common. If mistakes came, avoid it.

No one is perfect. Enjoy the opportunities. 

Hope this is a helpful topic for some beginners trying to speak out in public. 

These techniques are gained from my experience and advice I got from by mentors.

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Thank you so much for spending your valuable time....